Power of Words

So, lately I have been in a bit of a dilemma. I have discovered the true power of words.....spoken and unspoken. I often see church signs that say, "The tongue weighs little, but few can hold it." Isn't that the truth! But have you ever thought about the power of what actually comes out of your mouth? I never really did. Not until recently.

Words can cause us to erupt into laughter, break down into tears, fly into a rage, sink into despair, or float on clouds of happiness. When used against you, the enormous power of words can defeat your common sense, twist your thinking and control your behavior. Words are being used to invoke compassion and pity, fear and guilt, exploit love and loyalty, defeat with ridicule and humiliation, manipulate needs, desires and beliefs, obfuscate, misdirect and much more. Pretty strong stuff, wouldn’t you say? Yet, that’s only the beginning, for the words we use do more than describe the events we experience and actions we take; they determine their outcomes. What I am today is the result of the words I have used. What I will become and experience tomorrow, depends on the words I use today.

The words we use can block our progress or clear the path to success and happiness. They can deprive us of personal power or release it. Words are potent. They are infused with a divine spark. They are a gift from God — tools, which are used to create our reality. Their significance is hinted at in verse one, chapter one, in the Gospel of John: "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."

Nathaniel Hawthorne wrote, "Words — so innocent and powerless as they are, as standing in a dictionary, how potent for good and evil they become, in the hands of one who knows how to combine them!" The important point is that words are powerful and because we use them, we are powerful. But unless we are aware of their power and their proper usage, the power may mistakenly be used distructively.

Can you see how the words you use shape you and create your environment? Can you feel the enormous power locked into words? Don’t take your words lightly. Become aware of them and use them to empower you and those around you. Don’t allow a poor choice of words strip you of your unlimited potential. I have learned much over the past month about how words can really effect your life. There is life and death in your words, so choose them wisely!! You would never want to cause conflict and pain to someone. As Christians, we are to use our words to encourage and life one another up....that is what Christ wants us to do, however, He gave us the ability to think and make decisions for ourselves, so the words you choose are up to you. One day, you will be held accountable for your actions.....but also for your words.

What would you have to say for yourself?

Brian's picture

Yes we must be aware of this!

I just read this not to long ago and really fits your blog. God's word warns us of the power of the tongue.
 
James 4:5,8-10
 
4:5 - Even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things.
 
4:8 - But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
 
4:9 - With it we bless our God and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the similitude of God.
 
4:10 - Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so
Chele's picture

Knowing Scripture

You are very correct Brian, and unfortunately, I had to learn about the power of words the hard way.  I knew the scriptures like the back of my hand, but I never really KNEW the ability I had when using words.  Without pride I say I am a fairly educated person, especially in words.  English was one of my main subjects in high school, I graduated with 6 extra English credits, and it was one of my majors in college.  I read the dictionary for fun, haha, I am a nerd to the core.  So, I have all of these large, intelligent-sounding words and yet, the simpliest of things I said hurt the people I love most.
 
If I have learned anything about words it is that you may never know what will lift someone up or cause someone to fall.  Unbeknownst to me, I caused someone that meant the most to me to stumble.  And that, to me, is heartbreaking.  I can't go back, I can't change it.  I can only learn from the mistakes I made and move on.
 
I only hope others can learn from my mistakes too, before something slips from their lips that cannot be taken back.

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